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Where the feminists are getting it wrong.

By : MR MIH

Just in case you have no idea what feminism means, here is a clue ;

FeminismIs a range of political movements, ideologies, and social movements that share a common goal: to define, establish, and achieve political, economic, personal, and social equality of sexes. This includes seeking to establish educational and professional opportunities for women that are equal to those for men.

The above topic is a very sensitive one but regardless of that, I’m going to keep my message simple and concise. Just so you know, I ain’t a masculinist. Now, let’s hit straight to the point.

  • According to Stats , one in three women worldwide have experienced either intimate partner violence or non-partner sexual violence in their lifetime.
  • As a matter of fact, women in Saudi Arabia weren’t allowed to drive (Until recently) and are still discouraged from working jobs that would put them in contact with men. The unemployment rate for women is 33 percent for women, 7 percent for men.

Thus, I sincerely appreciate the so called “feminist” for their efforts in regards to creating/fighting for gender equality in the society plus giving a voice to the voiceless.

The idea of feminism is a great one in its pure form. Of recent, the so called idea of “feminism” has been diluted with extremism , laziness , ego and selfish interest.

A friend of mine recently told me about how the new Maggi advert caused a stir on Twitter.

The advert displayed how a hardworking lady would go to work very early in the morning and come back home to cook for the family (Using Maggi as an ingredient) .

Anything wrong with that? In my opinion, that wasn’t just a brilliant Ad, it was a genuine story of what happens every single day especially in the African community (As far as I know).

My friend then told me that this brilliant Ad, caused huge arguments on social media because our so-called “feminist” , didn’t accept the idea of the same woman going to work in the morning and still coming back home to cook. Is that normal?

I had a similar experience with a friend and Sis who told me bluntly ; “Women aren’t housechore slaves!”. Look, no one said women are housechore slaves.

As a matter of fact, women are delicate creatures and should be treated delicately – No doubt about that. Women are to be respected.

It should be clear that a woman is the president of the household. It is her duty to keep the house in good order, take care of the kids, and make the house a place of comfort for her spouse.

The man on the other hand should take full responsibility for the welfare of his wife and kids. It is an utmost responsibility of the husband to treat his wife right and nurture her with care.

To all the women who have suffered domestic violence, rape or abuse, accept my sympathy. To all the ladies who has suffered heart breaks or disappointments, life ain’t fair (For both sex).

Just to make clear my point to any feminist reading this ; I understand your plight to give women the freedom to have a voice but please withdraw extremism from the equation.

Just as much as you display victims of rape or sexual assault, educate our ladies to dress responsibly. Just as much as women crave respect, it’s exactly the same with the men.

Just as much as women want men to take responsibility for the family, men too, don’t want to end up with liabilities.

For crying out loud, there are only two sex on the planet – Male & Female. Why make things seem like men are the only sex causing problems on the planet? Why make it seem like the opposite sex are the only victims? Why make it seem like only women are suffering on the planet?

I suggest the feminists don’t just focus on the errors of men, instead educate both parties. Let’s face it, we live on a broken planet. It is the freaking responsibility of both the male and female, men and women, ladies and guys to fix themselves.

It’s okay to cry for help, it’s not okay to whine about your misfortunes – Do something about it .

Dear feminists, I implore you to promote a sense of responsibility in our ladies. Hey ; “No one is perfect” , how about you start promoting this to our ladies?

The extremism in this thing called “feminism” has led to a lot of broken homes. I’ll play my part in educating anyone reading this (Especially if you are married) by sharing a few quote(s) by Michelle Obama ;

  • Husbands: The reason why other women look attractive is because someone is taking good care of them. Grass is always green where it is watered. Instead of drooling over the green grass on the other side of the fence, work on yours and water it regularly. Any man can admire a beautiful woman, but it takes a true gentleman to make his woman admirable and beautiful.
  • One spouse cannot build a marriage alone when the other spouse is committed to destroying it. Marriage works when both husband and wife work together as a team to build their marriage.
  • Beware of marital advice from single people. Regardless of how sincere their advice may sound, most of it is theoretical and not derived from real life experiences. If you really need Godly advice, seek it from God-fearing, impartial and prayerful mature couples whose resolve has been tested by time and shaped by trials.

You see, the third quote above seems to be my favorite. Before you listen to a so called “feminist” , does her words correlates with her actions? Dear feminists, keep your ego/pain aside and tell the truth.

Don’t let your past experiences or relationships cloud your judgement. Tweak your message and make this planet a better place. How about that?!

Make It Happen.

7 Simple Reasons Why You Might Not Make It.

By : MR MIH

The topic above might sound ugly but I salute you for having the courage to read this. You want to win BIG? Some ugly things are inevitably going to come your way. The way you confront these ugly happenings or circumstances says a lot about your level of commitment. Everyday, dreams are dying. Every single day, people quit. Everyday, countless people die mentally. Why? Read on. Let’s get started. Here are seven solid reasons why many people seldom make it :

  • You Are Too Spiteful : You cannot truly excel with hate in your heart. You want to win BIG? Embrace the most powerful force on the planet – Love. This might sound ugly but it’s the truth ; “Spiteful people seldom make it “. Your dreams has to be bigger than some unnecessary hate.
  • You Embrace Small Targets : “Small aim is a crime, aim high” – APJ Kalam. Small targets will never fill you up. Small aims seldom makes any difference. As Grant Cardone would say – “It takes the same amount of energy to think small as it does to think big. Why not think BIG?”. Small target keeps you in an illusion that you are busy but will never and has never made anyone a productive being. Get rid of your small think. Set high targets. Even if you miss, you become someone better as a result. Dare to aim high!
  • Lost Sense Of Responsibility : I’m going to keep this one short – Without a huge sense of responsibility, you have absolutely zero chance at winning or making a difference. Take responsibility or become a liability.

  • You Act Like You Know It All : Are you the “Mr/Mrs Always Right?”. You don’t like to be corrected? Yes? Congratulations – Your chances of success in today’s world is incredibly low. No one in the history of mankind has it all figured out by themselves. Check out the greats , they had a team and they were willing to listen and learn from their team. I don’t care how much you have or know, if you have the “know-it-all” attitude, you’re bound to suffer. You may not know it yet but you will when you finally crash or collapse.
  • You Hate To Read/Study : This is quite a simple phenomenon. Most people hate to read or study. No wonder most people don’t make it. Read to lead. Read to win. Leaders are readers plus executers. Read to excel. If you don’t commit to reading or studying , you’re bound make dumb decisions and ruin your career. How about you start off your reading habit with my new e-book Here?

  • You Act Cheap : If you judge your self worth by the money in your pocket or bank account, you’re doomed. Your self worth is priceless. Don’t add yourself to the list of people who let money control them. Quit acting cheap. It’s more of a mental thing here – Get rid of the cheap think. I used to think I was expensive not until I realized I was priceless. You are priceless, act like it. You’ll find it difficult to excel if you can’t get to understand this simple fact – Your worth is priceless.

TOP 5 TRAITS OF CHEAP PEOPLE :

  1. They are self-centered.
  2. They are jealous individuals.
  3. They lack integrity.
  4. They value money over healthy relationships.
  5. They don’t keep to their words/promise.

Too Little Action – You’ll seldom make it if you take drippy actions. In any field, action taken consistency wins – Always! I’m NOT referring to inconsistent moves here. I’m talking about giant moves that stay consistent. Take so much action, people start criticizing or begging you to slow down. Make solid moves – Always. Nothing beats action. By the way, I just found a new quote that might change the way you think about action : “The biggest doer is the biggest boss” – Grant Cardone. Become the biggest boss.

Check out the above list and make sure you stay clear of those “costly” errors. Wish you success in all your endeavors. Have a great weekend!

Make It Happen.

The Art Of Focus – How To Really Get What You Want.

By : MR MIH

Focusthe centre of interest or activity.

Few years ago, I sat in front of the TV and this young lad pops up on the screen and said something exactly in the lines of ; “Focus on focus and you’ll start getting paid”.

Immediately I heard those words, I knew those words were junk. You don’t have to inspire people by mincing words. You should just tell them the truth. Tell them the way it is.

Why should you focus on focus? What if you were focusing on the wrong thing? What if you were focusing on the wrong target? By the way, “focus on focus” has no significant meaning – It’s just rhymes.

Let me tell you exactly what to focus on – The things you want. Quick story ; I remember when I was a kid, I used to be an avid dancer.

I was obsessed with dancing. At the time, Michael Jackson was my idol. I studied his every move but didn’t get it right until a fellow dancer (Way older and more experienced than I was) adviced me.

He said something I remember very clearly ; “When next you insert that disc into the DVD player, focus on every single move of MJ. Focus so much that you no longer hear anything or sound around you “.

As a kid, I took to his advice without an iota of doubt. Magic happened! I started getting the moves right and I started getting appreciated at school for my dancing skills not my academic grades (I wasn’t brilliant after all) .

If you’re dancer, you’ll realize this is true. I no longer dance today, but, I’ve learned one power skill that isn’t thought in schools – How to focus.

You get more of whatever it is you focus on the most. You focus on your misery? You’ll only get more of it. You focus on hate? Hate is what you’ll keep getting.

You focus on prosperity? You’ll begin to prosper and flourish . Focus on your future and you begin to create it (It’ll begin to unfold). Focus on the blessings you seek or expect and they’ll inevitably flow to your direction.

One of the biggest mistakes many individuals make is they fail to focus on the “main” thing.

A good example is a student who pays all attention to the result of a single test where He/She did well. A student major focus should be at the end result.

If you had a great score in a single test, and you failed when it comes to the overall grade, what’s the point?

When I write a book , I’m more focused on how many people gets to read the book ( Click here to claim your free copy) .

The more people that gets to read my book, then , the more there’s a high chance of me changing a life. You understand?

If I could get to slice down my message here to one line, it would be this – Focus on doing the right thing.

When you do the right thing, life unfolds the right way. You deserve to get what you want – Focus on your target.

Have a great week!

Make It Happen.

B Or C?

By : Mr Mih

I know the topic sounds a bit strange but I intend to keep things real quick and most importantly super clear. Thus, let’s get straight to the point.

This afternoon, I was having a discussion with a group of ladies and the “B” or “C” argument started. The argument didn’t last for up to 5 minutes. Why? Because no one was trying to be right or wrong. Everyone was trying to learn.

The “B” or “C” (argument) simply means beauty or character?. The ladies claimed that character is well better than beauty , which is hundred percent right. This is what I intend to point out – Why not have both? Why not combine the “B” and the “C”?

Imagine you have a spouse that has a great character plus a pleasant look (Countless people possess this gift already) . Hold on, doesn’t it exist? It does.

Why not have both? The point of this article is to let you know that you don’t have to adopt the “this or that” mentality. Why can’t you have it all? In another context, you might hear stuffs like; “Money or happiness?” .

Have you heard of that before? Yes? Now ask yourself ; “Why can’t I have both? “. You can have whatever you want.

Think in terms of both from this moment on and not shortages. Life is full of options and you can have whatever you want as long as you can put in the work and fight long enough for it.

Think wide. Think big. Think in terms of All. Shallow thinking is bad for your mental health. See you soon.

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Motivational Stew.

By : MR MIH

Yes. I promised and now I’m delivering. Actually, I intend to over deliver. Yesterday, I decided to jump on the bandwagon of the “Stew everywhere” theme. Just in case you don’t understand the “stew” theme, I’ll give you a quick hint. Two days ago Starboy (Wizkid) released the video of his “Fever” video with Tiwa Savage appearing in the video.

Anything special about that? Not exactly but because the two artiste have been rumoured to be having an affair (#Everywherestew) , the video caused a huge stir on the internet. Just so you know, the video had a million views in less than twenty four hours. Must be a great video, right? You can check it out here after reading this (If you want) . The song? Sounds good to me but what made the song a viral hit? That’s not what we are here to analyze.

WHAT I INTEND TO POINT OUT.

Wizkid might be an entertainer to y’all but hey that lad is a freaking genius at marketing. Wizkid is a business man, he isn’t just a musician. Wizkid knows how to get attention. He understands branding. Enough of the “Wizkid” rant.

I don’t care if Wizkid is dating Tiwa Savage. I care less if Wizkid starts dating Beyonce or Cardi B tomorrow. Wizkid is living his dreams. The dude is freaking wealthy – About $12 million net worth . What does this teach you and I? I’ve got to tell you this – Your life, your business , your brand depends on attention.

You can’t or don’t know how to get attention? Then, you’re in trouble. You’ve got to learn how to get people talking about you. Quit acting dull! Quit conforming. Spice up your art. Give it a different swag. Add value to it and most importantly keep it hot! Believe in your craft? Put it out there and let people see. Seek attention by all means. Attention is gold. I hear people complain about people talking about them. Look, you want people talking about you (Good or bad). No one’s talking about you? It signifies you’re irrelevant. People talk about Jesus and Mohammed every single day even after they’re gone. You get my point?

You have to figure out how to get people talking about you. Quit hiding under your mama’s and papa’s shade. Start figuring out how to make this one life you got worthwhile. Got a talent? Make every single person you meet know what you are great at. Reach out to people.

Build a life around what you’re great at. Let the rest of the world start talking and spitting out your freaking name. Use all your social mediums to grasp attention. In case you’re getting confused, this is my message to you in one line – Get Attention By All Means. “Money follows attention ” – Grant Cardone.

By the way this is my motivational Stew. Hope you enjoyed it? Work hard, work smart, get the right knowledge, and when you finally make it, help others and maybe one day you too can “stew” around with whoever you want – Your choice. Have a great weekend!

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How To Stay Hungry Even After Winning.

By : MR MIH

Yesterday I achieved a personal goal (Will share this with you later). I felt complete, fulfilled, and ecstatic! After this victory, I realized I was beginning to slow down, settle and I was almost starting to get bored. Why? Because I hate settling. I realized I couldn’t even figure out my next move.

In the moment of my “celebratory” vibe, I realized I lost something crucial – Momentum. That feeling of excitement was a great feeling, I can’t deny. Thus, after I won, I’m beginning to ask myself ; “What next? “. That moment rejuvenated my fight. Look, that little experience (Settling) kills countless dreams daily. Countless dreams die in the junction of winning/victory. Why? Because most people relish their moment of “little” breakthrough and forget they’re just getting started.

Now, I’m not asking you not to celebrate or have fun after winning but hey my friend, don’t lose focus! When it comes to winning/success , you can’t afford to lose focus. At the junction of “celebration” or attainment of goals, this is where most individuals lose their sharp edge and end up becoming blunt. I don’t want to be that person. I don’t want you to be that person either. Look at the winners at the top of the food chain, you’ll realize they’re are fun to be with but they hardly get carried away.

You want to represent legit success? Model the “ideally” successful people. You know who this people really are? They aren’t just the entrepreneurs, musicians, comedians, TV host, doctor, business men/women that you see on the screen of your phone or TV, they’re beyond that. They are extremely focused people. They keep their hunger sharp and fresh.

That’s who you need to become if you want to be an epitome of success. You need to be focused on your next move. You closed a deal? Congratulations! So what are you going to do next? Ugh? In this case, you gotta close more deals, and more juicy deals, and make more things happen.

I didn’t really create this article for you, I created this to wake myself up! It’s time to go hunting. It’s time to do more. It’s time to expand. It’s time to meet a new you, don’t you think? . I hope this resonates well with you? Go hunt for your dreams. I’ll be doing the same here. Happy hunting!

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Why You Need To Confront The Truth.

By : MR MIH

Truth : That which is real, in a deeper sense; spiritual or ‘genuine’ reality.

The truth can make you purge , sweat , or angry. On a personal note, the truth has made me cry. Everyone knows the truth when they see it or hear it but they resent it. Confronting the truth is one of the most difficult things to do especially if you’re weak willed. There’s an old saying that goes in the line of ; “The truth shall set you free” . Heard of it right? Look , that saying is a fact and you know it.

Probably , you’ve read books , quotes , or articles that tells you – “Success begins with a decision“. While that may be true , you should also KNOW that you won’t crack the success code if you don’t sit your ass down and acknowledge the truth. For example , if you’re broke financially and want to transition into generating cash into your pocket or bank account , one of the most basic step you must take is telling yourself the truth. Acknowledge it , don’t deny it. It can hurt but it’s the truth. In fact , when someone calls you a “broke ass”, ACKNOWLEDGE it. Why? Because its the truth. Then , the next step sets in , which is –

Make a decision (commit) to transit from where you are to where you wanna be. Got it?

If you fail to acknowledge the truth before you make a decision, you might be making a wrong decision!” – Mr Mih

One of the most ridiculous mistake people make is this – They deny their truth , they want to protect their “fluffy” ego and sometimes they just want to ignore it because they think it doesn’t matter. Wrong . It does matter , tear your comfort zone apart! Face the beast. If you know you’re wrong , admit it and apologize. If you know you’re broke (Morally,financially or spiritually) , egocentric, lazy , slow, stupid or dumb (whatever it is) , acknowledge it. It doesn’t hurt. Let me tell you what hurts – Not making progress! You want progress? Do these 6 simple tips ;

  1. Admit you’re yet to become the hot shot you intend to become. Then ;
  2. pull yourself together.
  3. Make a decision.
  4. Set up a plan.
  5. Then hit the road to make it happen.
  6. Repeat the process.

BENEFITS OF CONFRONTING THE TRUTH.

– You’ll become your biggest critic. Thus, no amount of criticism will get to you ever again.

– Clear head. You have a vivid vision of where you’re at and where you want to go.

– Fully driven. Now, you know the truth , right? You now know exactly what you have to do to take the BIG shots.

– Courage : While the rest of the world is pulling back or shrinking in their insecurities , you hit the forward button because you’ve confronted the beast that turns people off.

– Lastly, this old saying will forever remain true ; “The truth shall set you free”.

Tell yourself the truth. Take the bitter pill. Face the beast. Tear your illusions apart and get your game together, Alright?

Hope this helped? Please SHARE if this message resonates well with you.

Make It Happen!

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